David Hojak Married

  • … But Now You’re Gone, I Haven’t Figured Out Why

    … But Now You’re Gone, I Haven’t Figured Out Why

    To follow the ultimate failure that became my first, real relationship as a teenager, lesson after lesson followed. Even now, years later, I make observations about happenings of yesteryearTo follow the ultimate failure that became my first, real relationship as a teenager, lesson after lesson followed. Even now, years later,..

  • We Have a Greed, With Which We Have Agreed

    We Have a Greed, With Which We Have Agreed

    Spring, 2019… Now outcast by friends, betrayed ultimately by a failed marriage & with more limited options than I’d ever before seen… panic-calls started flying from my phone in rapid-fire succession. Mind you, David Hojak was frantic. In the past, there had been instances where health hindered both employment & transportation in…

  • I’m Looking California and Feeling Minnesota

    I’m Looking California and Feeling Minnesota

    BeLIEVE me when I tell you: by the time opportunity back west presented itself, I needed to pursue it HASTILY. I wasn’t expecting, nor was I prepared for, the frigid chill of the northeast. Back then, though I dearly loved this northeastern woman, I wanted a better location for us.

  • Once Divided… Nothing Left to Subtract

    Once Divided… Nothing Left to Subtract

    Arriving in Las Vegas, Nevada after my stay in the frigid, Arctic wastelands of Michigan was a relief. Cutting what should’ve been a three-day trip down to a two-day, cross-country blitz was even more amazing. All credit for safely traveling, past purchasing the vehicle, goes to the woman who accompanied…

  • Why Doesn’t Anyone Believe in Loneliness?

    Why Doesn’t Anyone Believe in Loneliness?

    Historically, they’ve said “home is where the heart is”… but when one of those “hearts” is so close to you, and it suddenly stops… in my case, it threw everything I’d ever been “taught” into question, so early on. In hindsight I look at these past instances experientially, considering only what I took from…