Dave Hojak Married

  • I’m Looking California and Feeling Minnesota

    I’m Looking California and Feeling Minnesota

    BeLIEVE me when I tell you: by the time opportunity back west presented itself, I needed to pursue it HASTILY. I wasn’t expecting, nor was I prepared for, the frigid chill of the northeast. Back then, though I dearly loved this northeastern woman, I wanted a better location for us.

  • Why Doesn’t Anyone Believe in Loneliness?

    Why Doesn’t Anyone Believe in Loneliness?

    Historically, they’ve said “home is where the heart is”… but when one of those “hearts” is so close to you, and it suddenly stops… in my case, it threw everything I’d ever been “taught” into question, so early on. In hindsight I look at these past instances experientially, considering only what I took from…

  • Close Your Eyes & Bow Your Head, I Need a Little Sympathy

    Close Your Eyes & Bow Your Head, I Need a Little Sympathy

    There came a point in life where I was at my absolute lowest, thus far… to start, an ex-girlfriend was covering rent for me in a roommate situation that she’d found for me. She’d also helped me leave Baja (Mexico), where I stayed with someone who proved themselves dishonest. Nonetheless…

  • … On Your Breast, I Might Lay My Crowded Head

    … On Your Breast, I Might Lay My Crowded Head

    In the event that you ever find yourself in “internet love” with anyone, do yourself a solid favor…… disappear ASAP, disavow all knowledge & consider leaving the country for awhile. If you’ve already provided a phone number, change it. If she has any bead on your geographic location, it’s time to move. And by…